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Posts tagged ‘Relationship’

Static Law & Dynamic Relationship

14 Oct 2016


Ridget Dynamic Law Relationships.pngWorking in the public transportation industry for the past few weeks, It has been very evident to me the bureaucratic boundaries required to improve safety and efficiency.  It is innately an externally-controlled system.  Pulling back from public transportation through, The very nature of law has historically always been for the purpose of protection, and service for those abiding by it.   Read more

Rhema and Logos Word of God

10 Jul 2016


Intro_banner.pngThere has been no shortage of reference in the last six months, for a frame of temporal reference, as to the amount of times I have heard the Bible, or written word, called “The Word of God”.  And I try as often as I can to insert all of the caveats that go along with the exclusivity of the Written, or “Logos” word being God’s Word alone.  Read more

The Gathering Place

19 Mar 2016


Intro_bannerIn our twenty-first century world, people connect as much over text and Facebook messages as face-to-face, or even phone calls. Even email has become “last decade”. But whatever the technological caliber our society as ascended to, one thing has not changed: our need to connect intimately. But often times, this happens only when we let it happen. Facebook has become a quick update place, and forum boards lack the kind of open-ended relational purpose a person longs for in discussion.

But could there be a place online where people can gather together, with quiet, secure rooms for more sensitive discussion, while having a lobby with more general? The difficulty here is these kinds of websites usually don’t catch in the way certain social media giants of the past have. Friendster, Myspace, Facebook, ICQ, have all connected people in ways other internet tools never could. They made communication easy. This is great, but there are topics (and levels of intimacy) that won’t naturally be hit in these atmospheres.


The tendency is to reserve these kinds of discussions for over-the-phone or face-to-face discussion. But there may actually be some benefits to putting a virtual gathering site online.

  • Ease of Access


It has been my experience that going out to interact with good friends is important, but I have actually just been wiped out after a long day of work, and don’t have the energy to change clothes, and shift into social mode physically. A place to meet virtually would remove the intimidating commute, without losing the same level of connection.


  • On-Going

One of the beautiful things about forum threads is they stay where they are put.  Of course, that certainly may not be ideal for some discussions, and should be backed up locally, but for many, there is a place to pick up a previous discussion.


There has been a recognized trend these days to do more moving then in generations passed. It has been called “Urbanization”. It proposes that more people are moving into cities than ever before. While this appears to be very exciting, it actually seems to have had the opposite effect. People are not “geographically closer together, but socially further apart. It takes something external to bind us into any kind of relationship, but work, for example, tends to be an external requirement more then a joy anymore. The tendency towards what returning to what happens outside of work is much more clear: Television, Video games, or externally structured events like a church youth group or Bible study group. But in all of these situations, there is not really the kind of openness for any great level of intimacy between people. The “informal” moments have to be “caught” intentionally. What if there were a place where people could gather for just these “informal relational moments, from the convenience of a web browser?


As a means of keeping this place safe, only those who have entered into the Lobby will know who is specifically present. Certain terms will have to be agreed to in order to keep people safe.

Once in the Lobby, people will be able jump right into conversation with people who have real faces next to their text! There would be no automated responses, but communication ought to come from real people. Certain individuals would need to be present to moderate the general structure of the lobby.


Those in the Lobby would be able to connect with several individuals for more intimate conversation. They would disappear from the roster on the Front entrance completely, and only their corner would be acknowledged in the Lobby. These kinds of conversations require a large amount of trust to bear the deep information of life. The greatest of online security would be utilized here to ensure that people are protected, and feel safe.



There is a intrinsic need in our lives to “bear our souls”. There is now no reason not to be releasing those things on your heart and be free of the pressure.

Unfinished Narrative

18 Mar 2016



What is ahead in the adventure?

The story present in the Bible is often missed amongst the stories of the individuals in the Bible. The reality is the Bible itself is a limited picture of the grand epic of this relational adventure with God. Read more

Relational Church Inteaction

12 Mar 2016



The body of Christ is an the elaborate composition of several different people known for their steady, pure devotion first to their Father God, and second to their brothers and sisters in Christ.  These elements are critical for stability and growth in a church family. Read more

Wearing Hats

9 Mar 2016



In our present society, very distinct personalities are essential. There is the necessity for retailers, who sell items. There are teachers, who convey information and inspire others. There are police who keep the peace, and legislators who consider the ramifications of the laws that law enforcement actually enforces. Read more

Building Bridges, Breaking Barriers

29 Jan 2016


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In Genesis 11, there was only one language spoken by all people in the entire world. The people used their communication skills to pridefully build a “tower of defiance” (Tower of Babel). Thus, God saw this as not good, and confused their languages to restrict evil. Read more

Life Narratives

13 Jan 2016


Life_narratives_bannerWhile organization is a highly stipulated element of life for many people, the reality is life has a degree of unpredictability. It can be messy, and whimsical at times. But isn’t that what makes life beautiful? Isn’t the key factor of excitement and adventure in life the very element of unpredictability that is also at times stressful? Read more

Conduit of Intimacy

11 Dec 2015


Ultimate good_feature_imageThe oldest written languages ironically share a similar name to one supreme God. For the Israelites, it is Yahwey, but another name for Him, articulating His high, supreme status is El-Shaddai. Read more

Eternity and Infinity

17 Oct 2015



This round of speculation on the topic of time picked up at one most iconic places for applicational theology discussion – the dinner table. It took some mathematical articulation of terms to categorize what our perspective is, and what Gods perspective my include. Of course, as with any contemplation of the nature of God, it is tragically a semi one-sided, limited perspective of something beyond our comprehension. We, as evangelical Judeo-Christian theists, claim finite eternity (having a starting point with no end), while claiming God as infinitely eternal (having no beginning nor end). It is from here we drop into the chasm from rational consistency into irrational speculation. So the question arose, “why does this need to be solved, or even addressed?”

The answer, of course, is different for every person, and subject to their circumstances in life. I considered that the majority of our existence will be spend beyond our present space-time plane. Simply applying certain terms, I am allowed to reach over to the astrophysics table to consider ideas, so long as they do not contradict Gods character in Scripture, and to some extent, in experience. But before digging into elements of astrophysics, I submit that theology, and empirical science can appear irrelevant in comparison to our relationship with God and others. God, because He is eternal, and others, because they are also eternal. Our experience with God in eternity may contemplate Gods infinity, as He will possibly be able to reveal greater elements of existence then was ever possible before in our physical bodies.

But I am ever aware of the relational dimension in theology, and thus – trusting the written word of God through in light of empirical discoveries is of significance to me. The question on the table was (and still is), did time exist before God initiated creation? Does relationship among the trinity legitimately compose a sequential elapse of events, which is a simplistic definition of time?

Of course, this period wouldn’t have been able to be measured by the life of stars, the orbital cycles of planets, or the rotational laws about their axis’. But certainly, there was time elapsed, according to the previously-stated definition. Such discussion is obviously not new: theologians have considered many possible theories – I will attempt to summarize. One includes God exists in an “eternal now”. This means He sees all events (for us) past, present, future, as if they are happening now. It would mean He would have to know our choices ahead of us (chosen or not) in order to see them. Another includes a “timeless God”. God exists outside the constraints of time. He knows not the transpiring of events as we do, but still is able to interact with us who do exist in time.

These discussions of the philosophical dimensions of the spiritual realm seem trivial to us, who may still cling to a simple relationship with God inside of a “walled-in” perspective of eternity. And yes, there is some gateway yet ahead for all of us. But if we are believers in Christ, eternity gleams in a very real future; one that may not include this present, physical experience in the presently-understood universe. So philosophical discussion seems pertinent to me, as it is the setting of our eternity, and certain absolutes, we understand, won’t change in it. God won’t change. But if God “can’t experience”, being an “eternal-now God”, who are we spending eternity with, has He a history of non-temporal experiences that would come up in conversation? Our perspective of God ought be what our lives are characterized by. Who are we working with? Of course, we can ask Him now, but His answers will be wise encapsulations of the spiritual reality into our finite, physical minds…

“Every subject touches every other subject” was a statement brought up during the dinner-table contemplations. It was a statement not new to me, but it was spun with a different finger, so-to-speak. Discussions of time eventually reaches to discussion of free-will, decisions, and relationship. I am beginning to conceive of abstract nouns, such as “love”, “faithfulness”, and “relationship” as as real, (if not more-so) then concrete nouns like “people”, “rice”, or “meatballs”. “The spiritual realm is more real then the physical realm” is a philosophy I have adopted now for about four years.

Thus, interpreting Scripture in light of the more important “why” elements, and less of the “how” elements leaves critical doctrines unscathed, and simultaneously allows empirical discoveries to effectively explain the physical creation around us. Of course, science has made some false conclusions, just have Scripture has had some erroneous conclusions. It is a wise balance to consider a reasonable assessment of what is around us, but to simply remember it’s source, and consider the simplistic philosophical implications, though they will continue to make more sense as we reason in the context of our relationship with God, following His counsel to follow the inspiration that He has ignited in our hearts.